im finally back after having a long break OPS AHAHAH
but in this break, i definitely face loads of stress from exams, as well as relationship
so today I’m gonna share the WAYS I USED to release myself from all these stress!😬
1) Jogging
I love to exercise a lot , to the extent i injure my own knee due to over excessive of sports as well as running. OPS haha
i feel that jogging allows me to vent all my anger out, especially when i run super fast (also known as springing) on the treadmill.
Approximately 12.5km/h
The anger i own in my mind will be converted to tiredness after i stopped running, and magically i will just calm down , and think of solutions to solve the problems
rather than RUNNING AWAY FROM MY PROBLEMS
love running does not means i run away from my problems okie 🌚
2)Shopping therapy
Even when you have no idea what to buy
just get out of the place, get to a random mall, roam around.
Since the shops are so updated to the trend, there definitely be new things awaits you to discover
discovering new things can distract oneself from thinking about the stressful event that is happening currently
its like being so amazed seeing new things in the store, making you very happy HAHAH
being happy is key point to release stress 😆
Therefore, its another way to release stress too 🌚👍🏽
3) Listening To Acoustic Music
this type if music is my favourite type of music to listen whenever I’m too tensed up.
Since its slow rhythm, it allows me to listen the singer’s clarity in singing
which allows me to appreciate the clarity more than usual i listen to rap songs HAHAHA
i even have a playlist of acoustic music
4) Sleeping
perhaps this is everyone’s favourite method🌚👍🏽
many times, the stress level shoot up due to lack of rest, therefore having a power nap is a great idea after all
napping also have their own type and cycle, allow this photo to do the explanation
i sincerely hope that all these little tips could help all the readers out there✌🏾
there was once when i was shopping, one of my closest friend called me.
with a very emotional voice, asking me “can i talk to u for a moment..”
as a close friend of hers, i would be more gladly to help her.
so i agreed to be her listening ear
and i feel, whatever she said in that phone call, i wanna share to EVERYONE, to let people know that, as a third party, how much they suffer and let people know the true feeling of them
“sigh, i feel my life as a third party in their relationship, i feel so confused. At times, i feel i should leave but i cant bear to leave because i love him
but people are all commenting on us, saying that we aren’t the official couple, we shouldn’t be doing this behind the the girl.
i did mention to him that, we should let go but then he didn’t wan to let go too.
I feel GUILTY
it hurts me so much when people call me slut, neither do i wanna be the third party too.
it hurts me when i see his wallpaper was him and his official girlfriend…. and he spends more time with her than me….
thats why i feel I’m nothing to him
sometimes its just the guy being greedy that he want two girls at once. but i cant do anything too….”
and i asked her “why don’t you just try and let go because i cant bear to see you suffer so much”
her only reply with a very deep voice was “because i love him more than i love myself”
my purpose of writing this blog, is to raise awareness to human being insulting the third party in the relationship.
WHO ARE YOU to even comment on it. its not your relationship, so just stfu
THEY ARE NOT WHO YOU THINK OF you may always think they are destroying the relationship. but think clearly, its both sides fault in the relationship first, causing things to change.
THEY HAVE FEELINGS they are also humans, they feel guilty too. Some things aren’t as easy as how u think. its not easy to quit this relationship. Especially when feelings are attached
i hope this blog post, can help people more and stop the insulting , because all these have to come to a stop and learn to respect each other
i have even heard of friends telling me that they have some mental illness , that somehow they are afraid of being inside a large group of friends
they feel that there are many human being surrounding them, thinking that they are the centre person of the group, they feel they are judging them
like they will feel uncomfortable talking to them, or even being anxious in front of them. basically not being themselves at all
thus they tend to keep QUIET
not many people understand what they are facing, they call them rude, uneducated and many more hurtful names
such mental illness, they are actually very hard to cope with, because what we faces every single day are human beings and more human beings.
interactions between humans cant be avoided
perhaps society need to learn more about them, and try to understand them more by having a smaller group discussion with them, or other ways which can make them feel better
todays topic might be bit sensitive to some people, if you feel that I’m saying something that i shouldn’t say, please comment in the “comment section”
THOUGHTS ABOUT NUDES
we all know public image are very important (( especially to bloggers )) and we see some of the ex-boyfriend , just post their ex-girlfriend’s nude ONLINE
i feel that this isn’t respecting their public image, and by destroying their reputation, it might ruined their future too
seeking for approval is part of respect too. they broke up with you doesn’t mean you can DISRESPECT THEM by posting their nudes online.
i censored the name due to concerning her privacy
this is very injustice to girls, we trusted you so much end up all you do is destroy our public image
THOUGHTS ABOUT ANIMAL ABUSE
human being thinks that animal do not have feelings, but neither do they know that they feel the same way as us.
they left their family , and came to the human family, thinking that you would give them THE LOVE that they lost from their family. but end up? you guys just abuse them
one of the animal being abused no food, no water , nothing at all
feeling very injustice and thinks that all this should stop, because they came to YOUR family, to be cared and loved rather than being abused. they deserve equal respect and love.
i shall end my post here. Any comment just feel free to write at the bottom.
many girls faces loads of struggles, and guys always think that being girl is always easy
here are the TOP struggles we always faces
1) FACING THE MONTHLY PERIOD
okie. THIS IS THE MOST TORTURING THING.
when our period comes, we have to face
CRAMPS, LOADS OF FOOD CRAVING, MOOD SWING, TIREDNESS and many more
feeling like this
2) WE WANT TO INDULGE OUR FOOD CRAVING BUT WE ARE AFRIAD OF WEIGHT GAIN
our craving , mostly are fattening,for example, pizza, starbucks frappe, mcdonald and etc
but we have to control just in case our weight increased
3) ALWAYS BROKE TO BUY NEW CLOTHING
we are to choose, whether to spent our money on clothing or food.
some clothing are always expensive , and some have to buy CERTAIN BRA to match the clothing
4) WE HAVE TOO MANY TYPES OF BRA
i once told my guy friends the bra types i have at home, he was confuse asf.
here are some of the bras we girls SURE HAVE
cage bra – in front is padded, but have creative pattern at the back of the bra
wired bra – typical bra that girls wear, below the padded area, it has thick bra wires which is painfully asf……myth saying that it support your breast but nah, it doesn’t
sports bra – wear to play sports, or even running. but i chose to wear it everyday because its not painful at all
strapless bra – wore to wear clothing that reveal shoulder area
and many more…..
5) SEEING THE EXACT SAME CLOTHING BUT WITH DIFFERENT PRICE AT DIFFERENT STORE
and you be wondering, whats the difference … is it the quality…or just the price
and you decided to buy the one with higher price because you think the quality is better
((but in actual fact its the same quality))
6) CLOSET IS ALWAYS FULL
GIRLS just buy too much clothes, thinking that we would wear it …. but we just leave it there, rotting…and we still can’t find something to wear
we buy clothes when theres…….👇🏾
7) SALESSSSS
we all get excited when our favourite stall has the word “sales”
because the original price is fking expensive , so we buy and buy and buy until our closet explodes
oh gawddddd… i have been wanting to do this post ever since i have been a blogger.
i read and known some of the struggles before i started my job as a blogger, thinking that it was fake and untrue….UNTIL I BECAME ONE BLOGGER … then i understand what they are facing ……
1) we always runs out of content to write
oh gosh oh gosh… this is very true… I’m a freelance blogger who blogs about everything but still… I CANT THINK OF WHAT TO WRITE.